After the diagnosis of a medical condition, an awful lot goes through your head. 'Why me", 'What now', 'Can I still do...' being among them. Whatever the situation there are a number of things to now consider. Your medical professional is probably helping with many, but he or she can't help with all. What are the things you can do to get the ball rolling? The first thing to do is lose a sense of blame. Illness happens. Sometimes it's genetic, sometimes it's random bad luck, sometimes we contribute (smoking for example). But it has happened, blame solves nothing, achieves nothing and in fact, sends you backwards. We'll all react differently, but these people give some interesting life lessons out of how they coped with illness in their child. Not over-researching on the internet is one of them - you're guaranteed to find
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